Lately, frustrated

I have to say, I have been practicing patience, and it is sure as hell , not easy.I find myself very frustrated with "posers". There is a saying, though--Typically what we resist or dont like in others is because we see it, or resist it in ourselves.I am exploring this within myself. There seems to be so much fear in this world--people having such a hard time , simply being. Always putting on a show, pretending to be someone else, someone better, someone more attractive, and the list goes on and on and on.Its not easy meeting people that are willing to be brutally honest with themselves--this comes easy to me. I welcome criticism-mind you, I'm not a door mat, but I want to grow, to learn, and if there is something I can't see about myself, and an outsider can bring my attention to it, bring it on, with open arms.Ultimately, I know that anybody's business besides my own, is not MY business, and it "shouldn't" bother me, but it does. I guess--back to the drawing board, eh?